To the career model for female strong person, what want a family to also be managed actually is very good, it is actually very of give a lot of care, want the there are plenty of such people of double bumper harvest of career and marriage, how should so female strong person make gift in marriage happier?
How does career female strong person manage marriage
1. makes clear him the action in the job and family
Some females obtained certain positive result on the job, often use jussive dialect and other communication, reach occupational disease area very easily between the couple.
As the female, the family that misses the work without doubt, want to make clear oneself job and domestic action above all, do the thing that good wife should do in marriage, blend in domesticity, not be serious appearance, after the job ends, come home assume domestic responsibility, the job has certain positive result, good wife also is in the life, the action of good mother
2. shows modest weakness in marriage, be mothered easily instead
Working boss hopes all employee can solve all problems on the job, a lot of female overmatch express to want to win more respect on the job, have ability very much, a person can be accomplished. But, in matrimony, the male must get esteem, need is mixed approbate.
Some female overmatch does not allow marital disbursement in the home, domesticity has you to had felt only. Such word, marital classics regular meeting feels you do not need him, in appear all round him satisfy him the opposite sex of immanent need, be attracted easily by the other side. So, as a woman, moderate in marriage land shows a weakness, satisfy immanent need of the man, adore the man, often let the husband love you.
3. attractive female, what to do to have self-confidence
In the life, a lot of females busy of the job and family take care of, ignored oneself dress up, but as the female, need to raise oneself value and individual glamour at any time, if become more attractive word, with respect to meeting discovery on-the-job field has self-confidence more.
In matrimony, no matter how you are beautiful, long-term contact can make the husband feels more easily aesthetic those who go up is fatigue, make oneself have charm more, make the husband feels mysterious, can attract the heart of the other side for a long time.
Female strong person is in marriage how ability is happy
1. has an eye for oneself man
Say the man is rational animal, also have perceptual one side actually. A lot of males hope he are praised, especially oneself care about a person praise, can give its very big encouragement. Meet the woman that admires him man, just be right female strong person. This put in oneself ‘s charge to create relaxation opportunity not only (the man is encouraged more, jump over can consecratory) , also created the vacuum of promotion to him.
Additional, admire him to be equal to him affirmation, after all this spouse is you pick the person that comes out to accompany your lifetime meticulously.
Equality and esteem are known in 2. marriage
The bilateral equality in marriage is the key that maintains domestic balance. Even if you are a female strong person, even if your another income of half is potential not as good as your half, but, remember please, there is the cent of high and low in the family, the everybody dedication to the family is coequal and important. The advantage that does not take you blindly goes contrasting his defect, this is the most terrible in matrimony. You are very outstanding perhaps, his at every turn is inferior to you, but, if you do not think circumstance aggravation goes down, do not grudge please your praise.
Your success, his contributive result cannot be done not have. Common saying says the backside of successful man has the support of good woman, the woman is not actually exceptional also. If do not have his altruistic support to you, before you are not considered already, the courtyard considers backyard again, so busy that cannot leave hand in?
Actually this is planted female advocate outside, male advocate the life pattern inside is early already by young husband and wife place desalt, but this kind of new society phenomenon also can bring new issue and new trouble. Accordingly, as clever female strong person, must note the line of the management of own marriage, the woman that just won’t become feeling of success of a career to fail so.
Give the marriage of career female strong person the proposal
(1) marriage wants long, equal esteem is absolutely the first. Strong one party must put smooth state of mind, if quarrel when blurt out ” I buy connect a building, what money do you give? ” your marriage assures to play. The person thinks those who have honor is living.
(2) has a word to be called ” nice lady is be fooled to come out () of much more considerate, much care, good man is be come out by boast (be trusted, be supported) ” . The man needs to be respected particularly, by need.
(Chapter of 3) milistary exploit also has his in part. Without the support of family, solved trouble back at home, the job perhaps was not finished so smoothly. Accordingly, should appreciate more to other in part, request, negotiate; little censure, complain, command and arrangement.
(The woman with powerful 4) and man often are competitive relation, in the family same also. Accordingly, female strong person should distinguish family and job, do not come home working actor ribbon, many somes of time is put on management marriage.
(5) discovers marital virtue, do less with other quite, fasten too avaricious. If the male is mixed in the career economically weaker than the female, so the woman discovers the man is other very hard the advantage of the respect and flashy part. Such word, the male can be experienced in the family be not respected and trust, be thwarted feeling increases.
Why female strong person is very difficult in marriage happy
Matrimony tragedy, it is the destiny of duty field woman, this word is listening to make a person dejected really. But actual that is to say is so miserable bear, si Dai plays the woman that can offend beauty so, the husband still affair, is the female outstanding be error really?
People classics regular meeting asks, why does outstanding woman search happy joy hard all the time? Pressing a root to want actually is not them is slashing, be them only is outstanding it is to must go all lengths go of care and maintenance. Mix between everybody’s vigor very more finite, in giving the job, do not give on feeling.
Watched a TV series before, there is woman of field of a duty euqally inside, she and husband get married are very old, look very love each other, and two people are decision-making need not child. Other one party is very close, very brilliant also, serve rose and friend to dine together in traditional festival all the time, woman of field of this one duty also feels oneself is really happy.
But one day, the husband that she is aware of suddenly has a home outside, also had a child. She and even do do not understand, oneself after all where is the fault. How should the job and family hold concurrently, it is the lady’s difficulty from beginning to end, it is the difficult problem that the lady does not have a law to handle from beginning to end.
You can maintain oneself, sure should learn to put down children personal relationship, you want the in the home is warm, you use heart operation even. Lady of this one whole world’s more difficult area depends on, below the circumstance that like becoming they and man student, tries hard, cannot get this some takes seriously however, instead is used in holding a home concurrently, come as the standard diversionary they.
Duty field woman is not the female’s original sin, in the home that they want to warm, more must the understanding that the society develops and applicable. Element is black ever said, “The woman of true happiness, have following level without fail: Stabilize a mood, having a society to ponder over working ability, rich inner world, money is free not other of have the aid of, become aware what know and control oneself moderately is actuation. Become aware what know and control oneself moderately is actuation..
Perhaps, matrimony already was not the only standard with female happy happiness already.