The divorce is emotion took kind of terminative a kind of processing, say the woman is afraid of a divorce, actually a lot of moment, the man compares a woman more be afraid of a divorce, when wanting to divorce with you, can appear what rectify when a man leave these show.
The man thinks the divorce can do what thing
1, the man comes home later and later, and night not the circumstance of a home to return to is increasing, that wanted to divorce namely 1\
The man that often does not come home, great majority is outside had a lover, they can be the date buy time with the lover with all sorts of excuse. And once the man drops into a third party ” tender countryside ” , that as time passes can have ” indulge in pleasure and forget home and duty ” idea and action. Another woman can erode the man’s thought stage by stage, press man makes the decision of the divorce, the man that turns him into oneself step by step (also perhaps having a third party among them is the likelihood that making reprisals to the man) . The husband does not think beautiful time accompanies wife and child, the between place when then he is used up is the life that he wants. The man of this moment, even if is to do not have a lover, also be to be being used ” cold war ” what means will allude him wife to want to divorce is true appeal to beg.
2, all belongings that the man asks a housekeeping is medium, give a wife overmuch money and precious gift no longer, also be to be in prepare to divorce
When the consumption of a man the habit becomes suddenly economical rise, buy precious gift to the wife no longer, also be no longer new goods acquires in the home, his so then abrupt change has idea to present marriage namely. If do not give wife, child consumption,the man makes the money that come, he is then apparent also to the disloyalty of wife and family. Money is having very great weight in most man eye, especially those need outside ” make offerings to ” the man of other woman, accuse to be about to meet to monetary palm more apparent. He can transfer property of governable of him under one’s name there another person as far as possible, the friend that may be him or kin, anyhow is dependable but over there the person that has nothing to do with the wife again (to divorce in the future cent belongings prepares) .
The change that the man ceases to be faithful
One, sexual life decreases
You have kind rarely, he is more indifferent to you. Say marriage is two the individual’s lives, it is the affection of fish and water, it is the happy days of your Nong Wonong. Love your man, be full of tender feelings everywhere to you, the head that can knead you is returned after neck love love passes. And when a man does not love you, be disinclined even the word to say with you, you ask him, he ” hum ” ” oh ” , be perfunctory briefly as far as possible you, more do not carry the change that can see you are daily, you change even if new hair style, put on the most beautiful appeal underwear, woman of reincarnate beauty charming, he also is light only, ignore you. Life of husband and wife won’t resemble at the outset so blazing, yearn for your body so, easily overnight a few. Between you not only love decreases, brawl also can become much, begin to divided a room to sleep even. Because you marry,even if is old cause, young lovers of old couple unlike that kind is intimate, but off the rails man is mixed really in the manner above the gender differred an a great distance at the outset.
2, do not love to come home
The home is the man’s harbour, saying path: “Golden pit silver-colored nest, the fossa that is inferior to oneself ” , the family is right for a man, it is block wind not just the police box that take shelter from rain, also be the one’s own little world that spirit perchs. If a man, outer dozen go all out tired, still do not want to come home however face wife and child, that specification home was lost to him ” harbour ” meaning, he also not so be sentimentally attached to. We should like to ask which husband is going to work tired after a day, do not think breakfast comes home the reeky meal that eats a wife to do, chat harmoniously together with family loosen. Now, you call he always was communicating in the past in, total somebody and he is long in his small letter a little, often agree to want a party however temporarily break an agreement uses working prevaricate you, change to work personally mad dinner party is ceaseless. The late night comes home, do not send one character to tumble into bed, such man, had changed actually. The excuse that does not love has a lot of, ” busy ” , can break the promise that vows solemnly at the outset. Did not have responsibility heart to the home when the man, did not have to the family care, also often be the beginning that he ceases to be faithful.
3, do not care you
He wrote down even your sesame seed big petty thing to go up in the heart once upon a time: Remember your period, all sorts of your greatly small fete, your when fun, the taste that you like is waited a moment. And calculate you to fall ill now, he also is all sorts of business, a light ” oneself go seeing a doctor ” , lend be in a hurry reason go off in a huff of the job next, a bit did not have former considerate attentive. Where is the time flower of a man, where is his heart. If a man, had not been willing to give energy for you, want to attend wholeheartedly no longer you, also not be willing to be caressed softly to you, those who replace is negligence, inhospitality is violent even, so explain he did not love you so. One loves your man, his car, always be you by the way, his time, can leave you at any time.
4, choice to you
You are together so long, he knows you have what indisposition naturally small soft costal region. When just was together, he can say: Irrespective, have me. Go up in a few bagatelle next, when your err, he always feels your head intimately to comfort you, want you relaxedly, all over the face bestow favor on be addicted to and tenderness. But now, already at the outset patience and good-tempered abandoned. The meal that he begins to cold-shoulder you to boil is not delicious, the dress that cold-shoulders you to wear is too ugly, on the education that connects the child, also say you are done not quite well, either virtuous wife fine mother, on economic spending, also meet blame you won’t housekeeping. Of the again and again choice, ground of add inflammatory details to magnifies your small error, final meeting forces so that you must become like shrew, must quarrel with him. Your marriage can be in the negative attitude of a man, let accumulated rancor roll bigger more like snowball, final because be overcome,you are met such life, and speak actively ” divorce ” , answering the place in man heart thinks. Common people often says: “It is easy to love each other, it is the most difficult to get along ” . Feeling of husband and wife, of need is ground of two individual make concerted effort are defended, on the life one reinstate loves to use patient responsibility heart to be managed jointly, never one person put up with one person’s licentious truth. Wish your family can be happy, wish what that bedside person can see this is being paid hard is foolish woman, those who know you is good, considerate forgive you, manage small goodlier together with you. Mr. Xue also hopes you can not want when anything crops up confused, both sides is communicated much calmlier, find little activity of a few promotional emotive more, let quality of life of husband and wife rise, so long feeling is not who says to want to abandon can be being put, should be opposite so oneself, have hope to other in part, believe, disharmonious it is temporary only, everything manages next metropolises in your intention slowly better.
The man wants to divorce to often have these show
The first, ” cruel ” move
So called ” cruel ” move, it is to show a few men want to divorce, in a series of rough stuff that take before the divorce, come true in order to facilitate with what quicken divorce desire, make oneself purpose is reached as early as possible. The force that says here divides an administrative levels, one is ” the body is violent ” , one is ” spirit is violent ” . Say first ” the body is violent ” , namely what we say usually ” the home is cruel ” , in marry after establishing a family, a few men wait for the reason of the respect as a result of disposition, disposition, easy impulse, irratable, won’t dominate a sentiment, it is easy to be in in the home when the face is angry, huffish to domestic member the body atttacks behavior, often be opposite family member ” start work use a base ” . But after the thing passes, ” billows sound as before ” , this how how appearance. But, if this man wants to divorce, at this moment he is carried out in the home ” the home is cruel ” frequency, frequency and be being compared before is apparent increase, and removed cycle shortens and do not have regularity, still have at that time violent firm is spent increase, harm rate becomes heavy. And because he makes disturbance intentionally,origin is mostly cause, unlike before the reason is many sided. Additionally one kind of phenomenon, domestic force is not used after marrying namely, before wanting to divorce, begin suddenly to carry out its ” the home is cruel ” , let a person feel without legal principle solution is mixed impenetrable. Say again then ” spirit is violent ” , namely we often say ” cold force ” , this kind never use the home maly cruel with the armed strength, but, often be in in the family when occurrence difference and contradiction, not be use language harm, adopt namely ” cold war ” means, to the other side in order to undertake the harm of psychology or spirit. But, this kind of force also is mixed those ” the body is violent ” same, below normal circumstance, after force passes, another cut ” calm ” , the life is attributed to common. But, if the man wants to divorce, so ” cold force ” and ” the body is violent ” case is same, frequency second can rise apparently, removed cycle shortens, language harm sex is bigger, cold war time is longer, and, it is to think the divorce carries a disturbance this mostly, a lot of it is to be in ” fabricated ” happen below the reason. Why to plant without giving thought to violent, final it is for ” force ” its divorce
The 2nd, ” eye ” blind
In average household and everyday life, all things that produce in the family, the expression of husband often has particularly ” eyesight is worn ” , active and perfervid, active processing is solved, this is active model; still has a kind of case is he is done not have ” hint given with the eyes ” , careless, careless, but without giving thought to what thing, after remind and be being informed what pass family, still can end its processing solution definitely, this is a kind of passivity model. But no matter which are phyletic model, have a common characteristic, care about to family and family namely with the care, the responsibility that this is them and obligation make like that. But, if want maly to divorce, no matter be at the outset ” active model ” or ” passivity ” , at that time not only behave not ” hint given with the eyes ” , can saying directly is to become ” eye ” blind, enter a kind ” the eye is blind ” condition. Meet to the person in the home and thing turn a blind eye to, the eye is empty everything, be in a kind to disregard it seems that to everything feeling, although you remind ceaselessly,inform, want to cause pay close attention to and care about, the eye leather that he also can behave carries repeatedly do not want to carry, seem to pay no attention to what, did not happen like everything same, fell ill even you even, he won’t ” see ” , calculate you to say to him, do not carry possibly also eye, come to enigmaticly to you ” go to a hospital unhealthily, say what to is used to me, I am not a doctor ” . Common saying says ” the window that the eye is the heart ” , why can be the home ” eye ” blind, what is invisible, be in ignore condition, namely ” the heart ” gave an issue, already ” absent-minded ” .
The 3rd, ” outside ” busy
Every male metropolis is hit for career family go all out, in participating in social activity, go, what wait as a result of profession, domain, industry is respective and different, although go to work in the unit, it is normal to some commuting, rule of time of work and rest, but some is not certain, the likelihood lives condition not the rule, often can appear outside contradiction of the job and generation of domestic work and rest conflicts. To commuting time is normal, of rule of work and rest, do not use wordy, busy to the job, the life not those men of the rule, also can meet in long-term domesticity form stage by stage roughly but the rule of abide, and although busy, need works overtime, go out to be able to tell family ahead of schedule, and show a case when, very relaxed, openness and true, namely ” mouth to the heart ” , ” the pit of the stomach is consistent ” . But if want maly to divorce, no matter be of at leisure of rule of work and rest, job,still be those ferial jobs busy, work overtime go out much, no matter which are planted of the type, unite a characteristic, begin namely ” busy ” rise, all sorts of overwork, go out, all things such as study, conference are following one by one, lead at that time ” assault ” the work of arrangement is much also, of the unit ” sudden incident ” much also, “Temporarily ” the announcement also becomes frequent rise, and it seems that in the unit all come greeting send toward, the dinner party is recieved, the couplet outside public relations must rely on him to finish, he can become an unit at a draught ” a balm for treating headaches ” , ” pillar ” , oneself outside ” busy ” be in a complete mess, namely ” consider ” do not go up, anyhow a word is, the outside time that creates as a result of all sorts of reasons far the over time that is in the home, the markeddest characteristic is not to gave a family member to say any more namely, is one kind fulfills compulsory type general only inform, you love a letter to be not believed, love does not listen, more moment are what does not say, with respect to this appearance! You love how how.
The man wants the sign of the divorce
Love your person, when crossing a street, metropolis closely the hand that plays you, and some moment still are met gently the head that has kissed you, but once he does not love you, you can discover conversation can become exceedingly difficult between you, he can be shown to you only a few impatient the appearance that perhaps distains, the dialog between you will become less and less, you ask him, he answers, some moment are disinclined to say more even any a word. Once upon a time when, a few very small businesses can miss even you go up in the heart, and now in even if you fell ill, he just also is holding a mobile phone in the arms, if a man has not been willing,give time and energy again so, this means him not to want to continue this paragraph of marriage. A lot of moment, begin to marry, everybody is full confidence to future, elapse ceaselessly as time, marriage begins to produce all sorts of distinct change, what what you carry is us no longer after in the future, it is however in this process, he does not want to taking you to enter an activity, when every time wants to pull you to go together with him, he can have the possibility all sorts of different reason. He is in the process that does a business, begin to develop oneself interest, often enter the activity in him circle, slowly do not wish to taking you again, and you can discover, if a man loves you no longer, besides the circle that he can keep apart you in him, and also won’t carry you again. The meeting is apparent when the man’s love has, and you can discover, most when beginning everybody to be together, each other often can mention opposite party before the friend, but the feeling that becomes you is worse and worse, he also can say possibly before relatives and friends, husband and wife’s feeling is early already burst such word, at that time you took care with respect to what had been close friends, because he has begun to let the person all round know to there is feeling between you, so the divorce also does not pass even if sooner or later thing. When he tells others these newses, also be all suggestions to others actually, in this process, others may feel you are a good wife no longer, and the man also is the road with bad henceforth divorce, so you want to be treated cautiously.