When the husband that discovers you when you lies or erring, must warn them, express your dissatisfaction, let them know its seriousness, scarcely can escape, want to admit one’s mistake, mend his ways afresh.
Husband errs how to let him draw a lesson
1. is calm, not bristle with anger
Criticism and dealing gas is not one and the same. Get angry sometimes not only helpless the effect at criticism, can do the business toward contact deadlocked. Husband did bad thing, or said wrong word, your hard to avoid should get angry, but if you hope criticism can have obtained the result, with respect to the mood that must have held oneself, when criticism must not shout oneself hoarse, because your anger can cause the fire in his heart probably, “Confront the tough with toughness ” do not have advantage to who.
2. shows sympathy more, institutional conversion thinks
Everybody sees the weakness of others easily, and the mistake that loses sight of oneself and error, the result can be caused grouse each other. Accordingly, before criticizing others, want to stand on the angle of the other side to want first, if be you,think, you can be done how. Not frivolous ground says ” if be me making affirmation is better than you hundredfold ” , this kind of hypothesis does not have conviction at all, can let him only more refuse to obey.
3. permits his argue one’s case
“The horizontal stroke regards as mountain side becomes a peak ” it is the truth that a lot of people know, the point of view that everybody sees a problem is different, a lot of moment, what the thing does not think like us is so magical cake, the likelihood still has a lot of unbeknown reasons. Occasionally, the other side may be the difficulties that one is reluctant to mention that has difficult talk, without method, do not wish to disclose facts one wishes to hide to others again however. Below this kind of circumstance, ought to clear up a state first, give him the chance of averment, otherwise very easy what because be opposite,thing incident holds is not comprehensive and blamed him wrongly, hurt his heart, also can affect your figure in his heart.
4. be practical and realistic, not optional and exaggerated, not speak or act on hearsay evidance
Criticizing husband is in all seriousness thing, absolutely cannot talk irresponsible. Must build the base in the fact, both neither can gossip, speak or act on hearsay evidance, also cannot be in did not make clear basin cold water is sprinkled before nitty-gritty. Otherwise, in case criticism has by accident, be contrary to with factual photograph, let him feel grievance not only, also have those who break oneself is creditable, serious when still can pose contradiction.
5. takes him with manage, and rather than with situation pressing his some wives are used to with impetus crushing the other side, “It is wrong that I say you became wrong ” ” our home after all who said to calculate ” this kind of criticism cannot convince people by reasoning, however some battle the flavour of situation pressing person, make the husband very hard be sincerely convinced, accordingly such criticism won’t succeed absolutely.
6.Praise in public, furtive criticism
Every man likes to hear a wife to praise oneself word, it is especially before alien, person of this kind of word is added again let him feel to have outer part, have self-confidence. Accordingly, praise the word of husband mights as well say; before alien, the word of concerned criticism wants to whisper. Such besides the face that can take care of him, it is better that critical effect also is met, husband also can write down your reasonable in the heart.
7. consider sth as it stands, do not want drag in all sorts of irrelevant matters
The commonnest in daily life husband and wife quarrels the scene is, when the wife criticizes the husband, often because thing err, rot the old sesame seed before its millet also drag in comes in, criticize together, even overall is negative the ability of face of his its other places, such criticism can make this second criticism loses a focal point not only, dispersive his attention, return the allergy that can cause him. Instead is inferior to saying this thing only, the thing that goes to already was being passed 3 close its mouth, can show the demeanour of a wife more so.
8. points out a mistake, but not satiric
When pointing out husband mistake, want convince people by reasoning, cannot blindly satiric, derisive, hurt his pride overly, often can be just the opposite to what one wished so, what the other side hears is abominable character only appeal to, is not critical content, still may have ” the path with its person, the body that still treats its person ” idea, also speak out the mistake that once had made to censure you, come so, criticism became censure each other, cause brawl.
9. ends with praising
After husband is criticized, inevitable meeting is very depressed, right now, you might as well the term that uses a few praises, affirm the ability of face of his its other places, let him feel him is not notting have is to be in, this action also can let you appear more lovely.
Cope with the method that says falsehood man
If he still is tardy not honest he is lying, that female friends, we can use tender strategy, act like a spoiled child to him, let him feel we did not give him very great pressure, the mood that we deliver him is happy, relaxed, cheerful, such their meetings express his true opinion gladlier, the fact that is willing to lie him tells us candidly. Of course we also can expose directly his crammer, why to ask he wants such doing? Why to want to lie? Undertake communication communicating with him. If tore crammer, his duck died stubborn, do not admit he is lying, that female friends, we with respect to roughhouse! Of article be no good come of fierce! The man is liking is even very the way that hates such roughhouse, below such pressure, the male can speak lying truth possibly for his face. Of course, crammer also has well-meaning crammer, if the man is for a certain secret that cannot say and lie well-meaningly to you, and he is honest finally, we are about great include he, many good-tempered heart. The man is lying, be overcome when our female friend, can raise oral warning to the man, since was together,tell him you, do not have with respect to the hope too much conceal, it is difficult to have should partake jointly together, do not want oneself to be pressed in the heart, err matter speaks out, acknowledged a mistake to go, do not use lying will cheat oneself, the idea that tells him man and practice. If this man lies frequently, do not change frequently, that is small make up me girl of dear of direct proposal, you part company, future still is growing, you are faced in the future such one lies habitual man, you meet what the meeting that be overcome regrets. Had lived oneself life afresh next, the action that makes him lying to oneself regrets!
The man in marriage has these show the specification is cheating you
Above all, in a paragraph of marriage, the first expression of the man, when talking with you namely, the bottom enrages inadequacy, this explains he is in the feeling that cheats you, because,be ” deceit ” element, when so the male qualified personnel in marriage can be in and you talk, the bottom enrages inadequacy, actually you can think back to at the outset the period of two individual love, of that period you two do not say without the word, each other openness is waited for, not delusive, but after marrying nowadays, in be in marriage you, cannot say marriage is medium you are irretentive at the outset the sort of happiness, but as marriage in your one every day get along, even if you quarrel without the problem between two people, so other place also can appear problem, for instance domestic pressure or the thing of a few have no alternative that kin friend causes, those who believe everybody also knows marriage is medium is small the thing to bead of a sesame seed can cause a problem, so of these things more and more pile up, the sort of happiness that can cause amative period is abreaction, this changed slowly with respect to the man in bringing about marriage. The man in just beginning marriage possibly is not bad to the woman, but slowly arrive from the back, crammer deceit of the man begins increasing, their conversation begins to hesitate in speech, often be an utter words that do not hang together, this is they are enraged without the bottom apparently, they are in cheat you, at that time, you can choose and he talks to inspecting, see him dare, or the look also does not have dodge, of course you cannot say to him directly ” you cheat me no longer, you dare are opposite with me inspect ” this kind of word, how did you say, then he can guard against somewhat for certain, had made answered preparation ahead of schedule, the business of tall affection of high intelligence quotient that so the woman in marriage wants to have her, you want adapt oneself to changing circumstances, look for exact scope and him to talk to inspecting, if he dare not is opposite with you,inspect, perhaps talk the respect cannot justify oneself, limbs is factitious and flurried, with respect to the specification then he is in cheat you, female people wants to think him what he cheated, make preparation of good a way of escape to oneself, because of marriage medium man did not lie, his mood is special nature and self-confidence.
Its one after another is behaved 2 times is, the man in marriage does not take a woman to attend any parties, want to if a man loves this woman truly,know, so he is met of too impatient to wait introduce you to kin friend, and take you go attending a few parties, let more person know you are his woman, of course someone can say, a few men are not willing namely, but can not say he does not love this woman, he is in beguiling woman, here is small making up those who want an answer is cannot judge this man to be in at this point of course beguiling woman, because of a little deep love the other side arrives the man of in one’s heart, they can not be willing, having a word is not to say ” Jin Wu hides charming ” , their woman gets them to admire, most nevertheless man or the wife that are willing to take oneself go attending a party, the man in doing not have which marriage does not take a woman to attend any parties, besides this expression, some expression of common and careful man behave the woman in marriage still needing here, judging this man is after all in him deceit. Finally, the 3rd man cheats feminine expression, it is the photograph that they are not willing to encircle hair woman in her friend, see this very may much person feels this is mixed in front of respecting do not take a woman to attend any party likeness, but it is different actually, this performance can say is the man that can see marriage is medium more is in cheat you, two individual marriage live together, this explained two people begin mutual confluence, enter each other ring, so the photograph that if a man comes out to be not encircled in the friend,basks in you, that showed a serious problem, what he cheats is your feeling, these people know the friend colleague boss that he does not think to let a friend encircle your existence, very apparent he is not taken seriously to this paragraph of your marriage, the likelihood just is adopting the mentality that plays the experience that play, perhaps say he thinks he is very young still have individual charm very much, not anxious 2 marriage 3 marriage, so the woman in here marriage was about to notice, what this paragraph of analyses you marriage of rational reason continues after all is necessary, do not let oneself be harmed by deceit finally.
These 5 unusual display explain he is in cheat you
1, see a mobile phone often have a news
If a man always is in,be not working hours to leaf through a mobile phone, seem to awaiting certain information, and still keep seeing a table, wear a bit it seems that urgent, at that time you were about to take care, he is waiting for the message of a certain woman, probable he is carrying you on the back to be in the person with other pursuit. Because can care about a mobile phone to have news not quite in recreational time person, in a certain specific hour only ability can care, the person that waits to like for instance gives his letter in reply.
2, the time that accompanies you is less and less
If your other in part often says he is very busy, always have turn the dinner party that does not drop, explain you are far from important in his heart. He always does not have time to accompany you, but a person is used 24 hours impossibly on the job entirely, he is to use his free time to do other business for certain, I am guessed, in his heart, the possibility that considers company is the wife with beautiful another, so, not foolish, must not let him continue to cheat your feeling again.
3, pour out the thing that work or encounters on the life to you no longer
If a man is abrupt be like at every turn satisfactory, the thing that in saying with you the job lives, encounters, always use ” very good ” , ” very successful recently ” the word comes prevaricate you, the life that explains he has not wanted to let you blend in him is medium, do not need you to worry about again his thing. The person that the likelihood has a better listen respectfully beside him, and he just is in all the time cheat you just. Want to know, if he still loves you, so right you are his most serious person him, no matter encounter everything,be him, can want the boy or girl friend that pour out.
4, always be the thing that evade sees the parent
If you had taken very long love long-distance race, when you want those who step marriage, and he always is the thing that evade sees the parent, often say the next time, perhaps say oneself are young still. So, he is certainly in the feeling that cheats you, waste your youth. You want to know, do not be willing to take you to go back the man that sees the parent, had not wanted to be together forever with you, you can be his lover only, is not his object, a sincerity loves your man, regular meeting the belt of too impatient to wait you come home, and planning your future.
5, often ask you lend money
The man is backboned, and they very keen on face-saving, won’t show oneself to compare the one side of weak force before the woman commonly. If a man often asks you lend money, show him and did not regard you as the sweetheart that wants to guard, hitting emotive cover to cheat your money however in one’s hand. Because a man does not have prospect to often ask the woman lends money impossibly also again, regard the woman as only the male qualified personnel of drawing machine can make this kind of issue.