A lot of a lot schoolgirls are the idea that be coerced by parents and will did not want look for a partner in marriage actually, so this moment refuses also is an art, cannot too self-respect of injury the other side, so how to date to reject the man? We understand together.
Date how to reject the man
Refusing is an art, want the proper pride of attend to the other side, cannot the expectation value that messy gives the other side the mistake. The affection that spend a town suggests to reject to date improperly male, can say straight from the shoulder, feel embarrassed I feel we are not quite appropriate. Still have a kind of euphemistic rejection means, can tell each other sincerely, will date is to deal with pa Mom, telling the truth is quite feel sorry, hope you can understand. Tell the other side you have a reason sincerely, indirect rejection the method is actually the first you are OK and indirect is to tell introducer to say you are dissatisfactory to the other side, such avoiding direct the harm in the center.
Date refuse south the man’s method
Can say to feel embarrassed, I have a friend, this is my pa Mom to deal with me, telling the truth is quite feel sorry. I hope you can understand, tell the other side you have a reason sincerely, indirect rejection the method is you are OK and indirect actually tell introducer to say you are dissatisfactory to the other side namely, such avoiding direct the harm in the center.
Date reject the man to have what attention
1, not evil language injures a person. Such situation may be encountered when dating, the man has a feeling very much to the woman, but this a bit feeling does not have woman root, to succeed ” throw a person ” some schoolgirls not hesitate even invective injury person, say the word of man of a few blow, let the man do not have face very much, hurt person pride, the way of such extremes is small make up proposal schoolgirl not to have again!
2, do not pick up the telephone not intentionally. The phone man that a lot of schoolgirls may feel they do not accept the man should understand is what meaning, this kind of rejection that alludes a gender perhaps is on certain schoolboy body very be successful, but some schoolboys do not eat this, may develop thick-skinned spirit to continue to be in hot pursuit, so small write a proposal it is best that everybody has a word to say to be clear about, avoid the trouble that does not want and unpleasantness.
3, do not want anxious to get things on the cheap to receive little gift. After all two people are to meet for the first time, what is more,the rather that the plan that you had not been done and he continues to understand association to go down, the little gift that does not receive opposite party so, want to thanks first to the sincerity of the other side, but must answer refus the other side courteously please, this also is normal human feelings, be schoolgirl individual accomplishment reflect.
Date what does rejection art have
1, tripartite rejects a law
This kind of method is relatively a few more euphemistic, if two people carry friend introduction, that tells that idea this friend, signal oneself intention what make a friend euphemistic next the other side, if be bilateral parent or of woman matchmaker introduction, signal intention bagman, let bagman transmit this information, avoid the awkwardness that says face to face.
2, oneself reject a law
If feel people says to not be clear about, can oneself refuse personally, although compare awkwardness, but the effect is relatively better, general component is the following kinds of methods:
(The object that 1) will reject comes out about, say oneself think of a way to him to listen directly, say these reasons clear word, the other side understands you commonly probably what idea, also won’t have article naturally.
(2) uses the means that sends small letter to perhaps send a short message also is possible, can think out oneself to if saying, edit, send him next, but should notice expression need is a few more courteous, better the word number carries in 100 words above, can express the respect that gives oneself so, relatively a few more courteous.