Mother-in-law of a lot of families and daughter-in-law still live together now, have contradiction of wife and mother very easily so actually, occasionally daughter-in-law also can be in husband’s family be deceived, so, how should if the mother-in-law’s air got in husband’s family,do?
How does the air that gets a grandmother in husband’s family do
Can tell preach calmly to manage with the mother-in-law.
Some mother-in-laws are not reasonable, but be daughter-in-law encourage brutal mother-in-law. Calm preach manages. Tell really be illogical, that should let your husband intervene. If husband is super to you good, the mother-in-law tells the word that be illogical to come and go less. If husband also sides with a mother-in-law, I do not know you are staying in that is why.
Husband’s family dare enrage the account that get to you
1 the likelihood is not borne all the time because of you
Some moment, your husband’s family enrages the account that get to you, because you are not borne all the time,the likelihood is, and they want to hold grandchildren and granddaughter in the arms, you? Did not plan to want the child all the time however, actually ah, the husband that is you and you does not plan to want the child, but your mother-in-law can side with his son of course, can be attributed to responsibility completely on your body, the husband’s family that can cause you always gives your gas to suffer. This kind of phenomenon is in now ah, happen generally really, always can husband’s family suffers to his daughter-in-law gas.
2 because you do not work all the time,may make money raise the home
Some moment, because you do not work all the time,your mother-in-law suffers to your gas or their home person enrages the account that get to you is, make money raise the home, the son that always invites them will make money raise the home, brought about their look down upon so your bug come, to you gas suffers, forcing you go working go making money go raising the home, because they feel distressed oneself son, but do not feel distressed however you, it is their one’s own flesh and blood then after all, and the one’s own flesh and blood that you are not them. So ah, can bring about them to always enrage the account that get to you.
3 likelihood they are contemptuous
Some husband’s family give him the reason that daughter-in-law gas gets, very simple, hit others of the look down upon in heart because of them namely, feel to there are them on this world fiercer, do not have what can rival with them, so ah, they always give your gas to suffer, when they encounter others, actually they also can suffer to others gas, they this kind of person eats typically namely soft be afraid of hard, if you are a bit harder, they not dare such, it is good to see you namely bully, just meet so this appearance. They feel in heart your family, your kin friend not up to much, cannot compare with them, they can feel you are how to marry those who take their home, you do not deserve to be added into their home. This kind of phenomenon, increasing in present life, this kind of mentality has particular problem actually, but, you cannot say with them again, say with them, they can give your gas possibly to suffer, might as well communicate with your husband communicate, let him help you.
How is ability husband’s family not be deceived
1. economy is independent
A lot of women abandoned her for marriage and family originally the job, became housewife, think to be what the family can change husband and husband’s family to show sympathy heart and soul so, the result often is disappointment letting a person however, the mother-in-law still asks a family via often can not earning money because of you the son wants to money is spent and get angry all the time, always feel you are the money that spent family son so, can look down on you of course.
In marriage, a lot of people are that share that cannot see you are a family to sacrifice and paid that share, can see you know to stretch one’s hand only everyday only ask husband wants money. A woman, although married, also do not quit oneself original job certainly, because a job proves you have economic source, also won’t ask husband wants money all the time, the mother-in-law also won’t look down on you of course.
What 2. wins husband is favorite
A lot of mother-in-laws look down on a daughter-in-law, it is the nonfeasance because of husband inter, the mother-in-law did not see the son is right of the daughter-in-law be very fond of, so ability can ascend the face on bazoo to the daughter-in-law. If the woman can win husband favorite, so the mother-in-law also dare not hurried easily, because do not have a mother-in-law,be impassable with oneself son.
If the mother-in-law has what dissatisfaction to you, gesticulate, if husband is favorite your word, regular meeting is told with the mother-in-law clear, this is my daughter-in-law, serving as a mother-in-law gesticulate to her without reason. When the mother-in-law is bad to you, husband can stand to help you talk, that mother-in-law also dare not look down on you easily later, breathe out to drink to you go.
3. takes out the bottom energy of life of a married woman’s parents’ home
A lot of mother-in-laws bully a daughter-in-law, because feel to bully,be bullied, the daughter-in-law also won’t have what factitive, even if how to bully a daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law also is submit to humiliation dare not tell a married woman’s parents’ home the person, so mother-in-law just dare mess things up. A lot of moment, the mother-in-law is bad to yours, and yourself leads to the grievance that you suffer.
If you tell a married woman’s parents’ home the person when mother-in-law first time bullies you, talk well with person of a married woman’s parents’ home, let husband’s family know, although you are married,reach their home, but person of a married woman’s parents’ home or meeting care you all the time, guard you, not be so called marry the daughter that go out to sprinkle rude and unreasonable water, was in charge of no longer. So the mother-in-law won’t bully you easily, if person of a married woman’s parents’ home returns actual strength having a place, that mother-in-law can see you high more, more never mention it bully you.
Wife and mother’s contradictory origin
1, Yo problem
The person that often differs is having different Yo concept, especially wife and mother two people. Mother-in-law the Yo at that time idea, use on educational grandchildren, it is moss-grown apparently, but the mother-in-law often feels he has practical experience, can say even, I am so those who look after children. And this produces certain contradiction with respect to meeting and daughter-in-law, accordingly, must want, well sit to be talked about, go teaching the child with scientific method, ability gives the child a good future quite, is not the experience that uses those fabricated.
2, marital manner
Once the son that the husband is a mother-in-law, this son once was mixed she is so close. And show the wife that he had himself nowadays, right oneself no longer close, this is common saying say married daughter-in-law to forget a woman. To such manner, probably mother-in-law within is repulsion, because the manner of this husband decided a mother-in-law,be opposite the manner of daughter-in-law. If say the husband can please a mother-in-law, can make wife happy, so whole family is met very happy, and if say the husband always is in one party of be partial to, can let jealous of other one party so.
3, domestic trivial matters
The metropolis in the home of everybody encounters certain domestic trivial matters, when you encounter domestic trivial matters, are you how handle? Domestic home has the classics that reads aloud hard originally, if say you always haggle over every ounce, so this thing is impassable forever. If say you are good-tempered,magnanimous, make others pleasurable not only, also let off oneself. The woman should want to choose trivial matters of correct family of manage of place to go, only what such your abilities let him happier quite live, when facing a few trivial issues especially, do not let oneself too too haggle over every ounce.