Quarrelling how to be solved between husband and wife is a very serious problem, after quarrelling, scarcely wants cold war, want to learn to communicate communication, but some people are communicated go up without respecting key, communicate namely invalid.
What does the castigatory means between husband and wife have
1, let him wear your skirt
If the disposition of your husband has been compared, very humorous also, with respect to penalty then he wears your skirt to dance to look to you, you can take the chance to record a small video, take this menace later next him, not obedient I am encircled with respect to hair friend.
2, take her to go shopping not to take money however
Take her to go shopping, when waiting for her to had picked the thing that wants to buy, just tell her to did not take money, also did not take a mobile phone, at that time she is enraged certainly beat, but get angry because of you are being offended before be again, so latter still won’t take you how
3, garment of genuflect Durian, rub board, clavier
Genuflect Durian seems to have bit of firm, mug-up is fond of everybody’s husband, still be genuflect rub garment board and keyboard are better, rub garment board harder, genuflect is controlled 10 minutes, he is met darling and acknowledge a mistake, the word of clavier can ask he cannot let clavier sunken give away go, embarrass smally he is one.
4, the business that does a few boy friends not to like
The business that does a few husband intentionally not to like uses gas he. Because be offended in husband occasionally when oneself are grouchy, next if he comforts himself not actively again, that does a few businesses that allow his jealous intentionally, perhaps do a few businesses that he does not like.
5, let his boast you
Both of you made a noise to rise because of a bagatelle, he apologized actively, you still cannot excuse this moment he, you must want drive up attitude, otherwise he is met as time passes feels to quarrel to every time disrelish finished sth. This is not the schoolgirl is made really! Some schoolboys always feel the schoolgirl is fooled fool had met, but however the ground is in same the business slips, after erring, acknowledge a mistake to also want to have an attitude. Let his boast you, get your praise till you are happy. What can let him see you already so is fierce, laugh what can make you happy again. Still won’t hurt the feeling between you.
How should after husband and wife quarrels, communicate
The first, ask direct expression.
To the woman, it is to hope the other side can care him more obviously, the mood that can like to use satirize namely unluckily and manner go debasing the other side, even even the inadequacy that ground of talk in a roundabout way points out the other side. Such expression, listen very easily in the man come into other meaning, he can think he is done not have in a bit value in feminine eye, won’t more naturally motivation can care the other side. A lot of moment, the misunderstanding between each other is come from namely at everybody not direct, always hope the other side is the ascarid in him abdomen very much, need an eyes to be able to let the other side understand his only, this happens impossibly at all. Want the other side to understand his think of a way truly, ask direct expression to come out, and cannot take aggressiveness, because you are the feeling in him expression, is not to want the other side to be in charge of to such feeling. Must not throw the question to the other side, otherwise he also can feel very indescribable, very grievance. Actually the man asks to what the feminine place that he likes puts forward, still can be satisfied as far as possible, so, what word says continuously, not sodden in abdomen, major man is slower, you do not say, he also won’t know what you are thinking.
The 2nd, straight-out.
If two people want to be communicated well, so do not want again shifty-eyed, think method is conveyed optionally. So insufficient and straight-out, very easy meeting is felt by the other side you do not have any sincerity at all, so such communicate complete no point and continual necessity. Everybody is to hope to be able to solve a problem through communicating, but you still are concealed somewhat, perhaps what idea is not willing to express the word that come out, so the other side has deviation very likely to the judgement of your manner, so the problem does not have method to get complete settlement from beginning to end. Each other are only straight-out, let the other side know the think of a way with him right heart and feeling, after ability can make likely of everybody get along in the process can the problem with certain and common avoid. E.g. , woman actually the heart is to yearn for what time accompanies him the other side is floriferous very much, want the other side janus-facedly however to leave his a bit further, such men can be misunderstood very likely really, think the other side is very harsh really to him manner. How is the result communicated, go up without respecting key, communicate again much, also do not have any action.
The 3rd, not strong.
The problem discusses how to be solved together on the base that two people want to be in equality namely actually in communication process, the relation of two people how repair. If be being pulled blindly by the mood,can go, think oneself just are correct one party very likely, the other side is a mean Lilliputian negative heart Chinese, this is not an attitude that wants peace to solve a problem at all. Still can let the other side feel even him extremely arrogant, obviously two people are equality, by what the other side qualified can ask so much. If such for a long time wanting, very easy meeting loses confidence and hope to this paragraph of relation. So, since be to want to sit calmly to chat well, put down the negative sentiment in him heart, only such, just can let each other listen to go in the aspirations of the other side. Consider the feeling of the other side more, change an angle to want probably, make the matter of these expression with respect to can clear the other side, thereby oneself also have opportunity and become reconciled of the other side.
Husband and wife quarrels not to punish husband so
Common saying says, when husband and wife quarrels, do not remember revenging. A lot of husband and wife, conflict often won’t produce between one night, should return to normal the following day. Accordingly, regard husband and wife as a between small contradiction, we should not penalize each other easily, especially woman, we should not refuse intimate, sex and will penalize each other with the gender. Come so, although look,they have a lot of mediums, but the frustrate feeling that this kind of penalty causes a man very easily or traitorous psychology. Long-term since, the man’s Leng Xin may become disinclination or release through other channel, this meeting affects female oneself. Accordingly, sexual penalty is a Shuang Renjian, harm marriage. Do not want to communicate in the home, like however outside ” do ” . Although there is stick to one’s position between husband and wife, also should be solved by two people, is not be told by others before alien and gesticulate. Those who get hurt is the face of the other side not only, still have the awkwardness that they leave. When husband and wife quarrels, the woman loves each other. The man cares about reason. The woman builds conflict very easily on emotive foundation. As a result of,the occurrence that they think to conflict is of affection foundation sway. Those who love stamp man is painful when be together with the woman when the man, they know the man’s past. Because they trust,the man tells a woman what they have is only with philogyny. But these methods that should not be feminine retaliation man. The woman loves a man too, so that they won’t discover scar or the anguish that are their. But if the woman does not love a man, they do not care. If when some women think they quarrel, saying, be innocently, so these words won’t cause too great harm. In fact, they say heart of indignant meeting affront. Because annoy, a kind of reaction can produce in the heart, and this kind of reaction can conduct cerebrum, just the heart wants truly, the essence that so they say is not inadvertently lose. If a woman does not love a man, if she is absent,she does not care, he is can sad still can injure a man.
Other castigatory way
1, the business that does a few husband not to like
I feel the schoolgirl likes to punish the method of own husband most, the business that does a few husband intentionally not to like namely uses gas he. Because be offended in husband occasionally when oneself are grouchy, next if he comforts himself not actively again, I feel I think well gas enrages him. Can do a few businesses that allow his jealous intentionally e.g. me, perhaps do a few businesses that he does not like.
2, uninstall game, hard disk clear sky
This method has a risk, but can explore incidentally your husband feels game is important after all or you are important. If be me, affirmative meeting chooses wife. Have a lot of people had asked me, husband always likes to play game, feel game is more important than me it seems that. You do not need this issue test, you need to communicate well with husband, harmonious good game follows the time that accompanies you with respect to OK. A paragraph of any feeling need to communicate, learn to communicate calmly first please.
3, genuflect balance
The number if 52, numerical value changes to be hit.
4, let his boast you
Both of you made a noise to rise because of a bagatelle, he apologized actively, you still cannot excuse this moment he, you must want drive up attitude, otherwise he is met as time passes feels to quarrel to every time disrelish finished sth. This is not the schoolgirl is made really! Some schoolboys always feel the schoolgirl is fooled fool had met, but however the ground is in same the business slips, after erring, acknowledge a mistake to also want to have an attitude. Let his boast you, get your praise till you are happy. What can let him see you already so is fierce, laugh what can make you happy again. Still won’t hurt the feeling between you