If two people are medium,actually additionally one does not have the word of this respect meaning, by oneself good friend confess it is a very awkward thing, fear the meeting after refusing loses this good friend on one hand, do not have love really again on the other hand, unusual be in a dilemma.
How be done by good friend confess
If you never your mind disturbed,had liked the other side, that says the word to be clear about, can continue finally to do a friend to see your lot, without what this is embarrassed, after all feeling is all one’s life thing, choose together because of the problem before merely, do not like development for a long time to go down, still be meeting somebody is harmed.
Actually your psychological activity professions from the other side begin to not be any more on a channel, he likes you should not be say since one fashionable just. Among them advantages and disadvantages has been balanced in the heart already when he makes a decision, but still choose expression to come out finally he has made the plan that can lose, so, or is lost, or is together.
What he wants is the result of an efficient, do not be willing to continue to continue with the friend’s identity, so, the hour that you lose a friend is when he professions. True need not so kink, the other side also demands the result of an efficient nevertheless, you why so kind-hearted kink. You also the speaks oneself think of a way of efficient, feel to like to be together, do not like to end. Think occasionally too much, feel to not be willing to injure another person from personal goodness, but it is a kind of harm to other instead actually.
How be rejected by good friend confess
1 change a perspective. Be professioned by the good friend, your the first reaction is flurried, not be subliminal refuse. You do not want to lose him, as the identity of a friend. If but you also knew to get along,so long person still does not like, that also was not fond of joyous likelihood probably.
2 you can procrastinate only, try to go the factual deceive of this vexed letting a person, still return former position. You are clear also, the friend is longer than the lover, tenderer than the lover. You every time amative result is bad, you also hate to part with the person that lets a such happiness to bear the human nature of these driftage.
The circumstance of the 3 friend confess that if was come up against really,are hated to part with to abandon, remember please, the preach with can priggish scarcely manages! Must use speak light tone looks be like insipid transient this topic!
You need 4. to deliver your manner to what he is clear about only. With an euphemistic means. You can have the period of a paragraph of grave alienation, but this is in all one’s life before calculate what to get. He cherishs you as much, if do not abandon what meaning,understand likewise.
How be done by good friend confess not pained
1. [cold treatment] the meaning that if his good friend was conveyed,has attachment to oneself, oneself do not have a feeling again, also do not want to develop friendship into love, so, might as well first cold treatment. Meditate above all oneself have the intimate, ambiguous words and deeds that exceeds friendship, whether to let the other side produce misapprehensive; to look for a few appropriate excuse to reduce the chance that contacts with the other side again, let the other side can become aware somewhat oneself measurable alienation.
2. [excuse oneself from absolutely] the good friend carries the sentence of love clear, oneself cannot twinkle certainly its word, be afraid of pained, OK and euphemistic refuse. OK and present first boast the good qualities of the other side, bearing or other, point out oneself a few inadequacy, make clear do not deserve to go up the other side, as far as possible bad him one side bears. Because be a good friend, each other know the other side, the ground that seek should is close to true, when saying, the manner wants sincerity, do not say empty, let the other side experience making friend love just is permanent.
3. [book interview] feel present to be exported hard refuse, tell each other, can give him (she) a clear answer, can wait for a tool with mail, small letter, QQ, if saying this, expression comes out. Fall in written word, can consider, deliberate, brew, the statement is more euphemistic, term organization is more rigorous, convey semantic clearer palpability. Although refuse if, also can reduce read person’s present awkwardness, when the other side looks, state of mind also is compared when professioning, calm a little some, acceptance rate also can some morer.
By the result that good friend confess rejects
1 continue to become a friend with the other side
Love is not in in friendship, was rejected, explain you are not quite appropriate, or time is wrong, or way is wrong etc, this is very common circumstance. So, not too close oneself, should professioning is the brave girl that once courted true love to meet defeat only, continue happy the life that spends oneself.
2 cannot become a friend
Becoming a friend is the face that is making his for the person that fails to professioning, the object that our everyone goes be being admired in the heart to oneself professions, be friend of not willing redo? Succeeding is sweethearts, if failed to still become a friend, that lost professioned sense.
Before professioning after all, you had been a friend. Those profession failed to continue to become a friend even, scarcely is true love. If situation is difficult, the person that how can you want to force to had rejected you is full of ashamed regret continuity and you to become a friend. If love quite greatly, how can you let you from the back get along such awkwardness. Profession unsuccessful succeed add becomes a friend, be most those who make a person afflictive.